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Eff it why not start a new thread . . . Marriage Niccas Comments Appreciated -thx mngnt
Posted by: Lennox (170.141.92.---)
Date: December 9, 2005 08:41AM

What are your ideas on Marriage?

Are you married, have you been married?

Are you ready for marriage?

What do you expect the ideal husband to do for his wife?

What do you expect the ideal wife to do for her husband?

Are you willing to be in an open marriage?

Do you expect your mate to call you if they are out all night?

Do you expect your mate to no longer look or be attracted to other people?


I think everyone has different views on marriage I'm just trying to gage where everyone stands.


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Re: Eff it why not start a new thread . . . Marriage Niccas Comments Appreciated -thx mngnt
Posted by: beloved (---.clsp.qwest.net)
Date: December 9, 2005 04:31PM

What are your ideas on Marriage?

Good if both folks know their role...


Are you married, have you been married?

NO, legally no

Are you ready for marriage?

Yes

What do you expect the ideal husband to do for his wife?

Lead, show her God - Father Figure - Love ect.

What do you expect the ideal wife to do for her husband?

Support, believe in -

Are you willing to be in an open marriage?

Whats an open marriage?

Do you expect your mate to call you if they are out all night?

Do you expect your mate to no longer look or be attracted to other people?

Re: Eff it why not start a new thread . . . Marriage Niccas Comments Appreciated -thx mngnt
Posted by: TdotY (141.151.22.---)
Date: December 9, 2005 06:14PM

cool thread ox,

What are your ideas on Marriage?
I want to get married someday. I want to feel like im marrying my best friend. I believe marriage takes work and that both parties must be ready for the not only the good times but the bumps in the road.

Are you married, have you been married?
Nope

Are you ready for marriage?
Right now, i dont think so. I havent accomplished the things i want to before i get married and share my life with someone.

What do you expect the ideal husband to do for his wife?
Love me for me, first and formost. Love life, love being around, and to be my best friend as well as my husband. Also to see me as his equal, thats very big for me because i was raised by an independent single parent.

What do you expect the ideal wife to do for her husband?
For me to love him for who he is. Love life, love being in his presence, and to be his bestfriend as well as his wife.

Are you willing to be in an open marriage?
hell no. I would say single if i wasnt ready to be in a committed partnership.

Do you expect your mate to call you if they are out all night?
Umm hell yes! I am not the type of person who likes smothering people or nagging them to death. But i demand respect, at least be honest and respectful to tell me, "hey i wont be coming home, i'll see you tomorrow". Now of course im going to ask why if its not something that i knew about early on.

Do you expect your mate to no longer look or be attracted to other people?
No cause thats not reality. Nothing wrong with looking better yet glancing. But respect comes back into it.


Re: Eff it why not start a new thread . . . Marriage Niccas Comments Appreciated -thx mngnt
Posted by: Ambiant80 (---.triad.res.rr.com)
Date: December 11, 2005 05:33AM

What are your ideas on Marriage?
- I want to get married someday but its not going to be in the near future . I want to take my time and learn more about myself before I settle down with another person .

Are you married, have you been married?
- I am not married .

Are you ready for marriage?
- No I am not ready for marriage .

What do you expect the ideal husband to do for his wife?
- I expect the ideal husband to stick by his wife's side through thick and thin . Lover her and nurture and be in love . Love her even when she is 70 years old with a wig .

What do you expect the ideal wife to do for her husband?
- I expect the ideal wife to stick by her husband's side through thick and thin . Love him and nurture him and be in LOVE . PARTNERS - LOVERS - together through it all .

Are you willing to be in an open marriage?
- Hell to the nawl . ( Sorry Whitney answered for me ) but no , I am not willing to be in an open marriage . Its stupid and its a waste of time . Marriage is TWO people together only with each other - if you are going to have an open marriage , don't waste your money on getting married .

Do you expect your mate to call you if they are out all night?
- Yes , I would like to know where they are in case something happens .

Do you expect your mate to no longer look or be attracted to other people?
- Honestly , I better be the only girl that they look at and find attractive . Thats my honest answer . He can think Halle Berry is hot and etc , but chances are he would never meet her .




Edited 1 times. Last edit at 12/11/05 05:34AM by Ambiant80.

Re: Eff it why not start a new thread . . . Marriage Niccas Comments Appreciated -thx mngnt
Posted by: Adora (---.proxy.aol.com)
Date: December 11, 2005 08:02PM

What are your ideas on Marriage?

Are you married, have you been married?
no and no

Are you ready for marriage?
definitely not

What do you expect the ideal husband to do for his wife?
be supportive and loyal

What do you expect the ideal wife to do for her husband?
see above

Are you willing to be in an open marriage?
for some odd reason i was thinking about these this morning. (weird) i couldn't have one though...

Do you expect your mate to call you if they are out all night?
umm...i guess so.?

Do you expect your mate to no longer look or be attracted to other people?
no...dont know how realistic that would be


I think everyone has different views on marriage I'm just trying to gage where everyone stands.

Re: Eff it why not start a new thread . . . Marriage Niccas Comments Appreciated -thx mngnt
Posted by: California Girl (---.proxy.aol.com)
Date: December 12, 2005 04:27PM

What are your ideas on Marriage?

Are you married, have you been married?

No. No


Are you ready for marriage?

No, I think I need more relationship experience.


What do you expect the ideal husband to do for his wife?

Be loyal, committed, honest, supportive, intimate; a good father to the kids


What do you expect the ideal wife to do for her husband?

Be loyal, committed, honest, supportive, intimate; a good mother to the kids


Are you willing to be in an open marriage?

Someone already took my answer: hell to the naw!!


Do you expect your mate to call you if they are out all night?

Of course.


Do you expect your mate to no longer look or be attracted to other people?

No. This isn't realistic. I would actually prefer my husband to tell me when he's attracted to other people. I know it's going to happen, so he may as well be honest about it. I think being open about it would keep him honest and faithful--by not keeping any secrets. If we're in public, he'd better be smooth about it though, no neck craning, just passing glances if anything.




"Had it not been for therapy, I never would have discovered how truly fierce I am." -Loose quote

Re: Eff it why not start a new thread . . . Marriage Niccas Comments Appreciated -thx mngnt
Posted by: LYRICS (---.PROV.east.verizon.net)
Date: December 13, 2005 11:23AM

What are your ideas on Marriage?
BLAH.

Are you married, have you been married?
NO, NO

Are you ready for marriage?
NO

What do you expect the ideal husband to do for his wife?
WHATEVER SHE DESIRES

What do you expect the ideal wife to do for her husband?
WHATEVER HE DESIRES

Are you willing to be in an open marriage?
SURE

Do you expect your mate to call you if they are out all night?
OF COURSE

Do you expect your mate to no longer look or be attracted to other people?
NO, HE AIN'T DEAD JUST IN A RELATIONSHIP.


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IF MY SINS WERE TO KILL ME NOW, I'D DIE A PAINFUL DEATH.
WHEN I GET ON MY KNEES TO PRAY FOR FORGIVENESS I SEE THAT THERE IS NONE LEFT.



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